Sky Of Colours

----------Wednesday, July 11, 2007----------

We were discussing bout some qns in lecture today which i wrote wad i feels on a piece of paper and decides to blog it.. showed kelin and peishan.. Kelin agreed with me.. the topic was smth bout guys crying..

Should guys cry? Can guys cry? In what situation will a guy then break into tears and cry??

one of the guy in another class says: guys can cry but secretly..

well.. most of the guys has been taught since young that 'BIG BOY DON'T CRY' by their teachers in school and parents at home when they are bout to start crying. thus, guys don't cry easily. Guys often keeps most of the things to themselves, be it happy things or sad things..
Guys nowadays when met with some unhappy stuff will jus sit at a corner and EMO.. and this hurt those people around who cared bout them. though it may be right that crying doesnt help much in anything, but after crying, u will definitely made urself feels better. Guys normally see themselves as a strong and serious person who will not resort to crying no matter what happens, be it in work, relationships and stuff.. but aren't guys human too? does it mean that guy have no feelings? they cant cry? Girls on the other hand cry more oten. why? cause GUYS THINK WITH THEIR HEADS WHILE GIRLS THINK WITH THEIR HEARTS. thus girl appears to be more temperament. i personally feel that guys should cry when they are sad. they too like girls need to shoulder to lean onto too.. they are humans and have feelings too.. so its only right that they cry too.. so girls.. if your boy-friends feel like crying, just lend them ur shoulders and listening ears like what they will do for u.. and guys.. cry if u are sad! be it cry in the open or crying secretly, just cry when u feels like it!

Its Nice Being Colourful...---------------------- 10:15 PM